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Xenomelia and sexuality
Your patient traced the history of his desire to amputate his leg (as do other individuals with xenomelia) to age 4, when he saw a man with a missing limb, which made a vivid impression on him. As you discuss, this was probably a moment when he had an intensely psychosexual imprinting of this perception. However, the actual memory of the man with the amputation may well have been a screen memory for other more arousing and traumatic experiences that the patient experienced at this early age, such as castration anxiety with or without actual overstimulation of the physical body.
Nathan Szajnberg, MD, and I reported a case of a man who desired that his partner pretend to be an amputee in order to strengthen sexual arousal, an arousal that he recalled having as early as age 5 or 6.1 The report traced this fetish back to research films of his upbringing, which indicated heightened physical stimulation in very early life.2 As we wrote, “The case provides unusual information about the manner in which early childhood events interdigitate with intrapsychic processes and mental structuralisation.” This has led me to wonder if similar mental processes are at work in the current wave of young people who are convinced that they are a different gender than the one indicated by their anatomy.
1. Massie H, Szajnberg N. The ontogeny of a sexual fetish from birth to age 30 and memory processes—a research and case report from a prospective longitudinal study. Int J Psychoanal. 1997;78(pt 4):755-771.
2. Massie H, Szajnberg N. Lives across time/growing up: paths to emotional health and emotional illness from birth to 30 in 76 people. London, UK: Kamac Books; 2008.
Your patient traced the history of his desire to amputate his leg (as do other individuals with xenomelia) to age 4, when he saw a man with a missing limb, which made a vivid impression on him. As you discuss, this was probably a moment when he had an intensely psychosexual imprinting of this perception. However, the actual memory of the man with the amputation may well have been a screen memory for other more arousing and traumatic experiences that the patient experienced at this early age, such as castration anxiety with or without actual overstimulation of the physical body.
Nathan Szajnberg, MD, and I reported a case of a man who desired that his partner pretend to be an amputee in order to strengthen sexual arousal, an arousal that he recalled having as early as age 5 or 6.1 The report traced this fetish back to research films of his upbringing, which indicated heightened physical stimulation in very early life.2 As we wrote, “The case provides unusual information about the manner in which early childhood events interdigitate with intrapsychic processes and mental structuralisation.” This has led me to wonder if similar mental processes are at work in the current wave of young people who are convinced that they are a different gender than the one indicated by their anatomy.
Your patient traced the history of his desire to amputate his leg (as do other individuals with xenomelia) to age 4, when he saw a man with a missing limb, which made a vivid impression on him. As you discuss, this was probably a moment when he had an intensely psychosexual imprinting of this perception. However, the actual memory of the man with the amputation may well have been a screen memory for other more arousing and traumatic experiences that the patient experienced at this early age, such as castration anxiety with or without actual overstimulation of the physical body.
Nathan Szajnberg, MD, and I reported a case of a man who desired that his partner pretend to be an amputee in order to strengthen sexual arousal, an arousal that he recalled having as early as age 5 or 6.1 The report traced this fetish back to research films of his upbringing, which indicated heightened physical stimulation in very early life.2 As we wrote, “The case provides unusual information about the manner in which early childhood events interdigitate with intrapsychic processes and mental structuralisation.” This has led me to wonder if similar mental processes are at work in the current wave of young people who are convinced that they are a different gender than the one indicated by their anatomy.
1. Massie H, Szajnberg N. The ontogeny of a sexual fetish from birth to age 30 and memory processes—a research and case report from a prospective longitudinal study. Int J Psychoanal. 1997;78(pt 4):755-771.
2. Massie H, Szajnberg N. Lives across time/growing up: paths to emotional health and emotional illness from birth to 30 in 76 people. London, UK: Kamac Books; 2008.
1. Massie H, Szajnberg N. The ontogeny of a sexual fetish from birth to age 30 and memory processes—a research and case report from a prospective longitudinal study. Int J Psychoanal. 1997;78(pt 4):755-771.
2. Massie H, Szajnberg N. Lives across time/growing up: paths to emotional health and emotional illness from birth to 30 in 76 people. London, UK: Kamac Books; 2008.